On June 28, the LGBT Network of Leiden University hosted a panel discussion on gender-neutral language use: “He, she or they: how should the university refer to you?”. Together with the audience and three experts from Leiden University, Dick Smakman, Eliza Steinbock, and Caroline van Overbeeke, we discussed the importance of inclusive communication in the university, in which areas we tend to run into binary language usage, and how we may start to address this.